As many of you have probably realized by now, I tend to be a little verbose. What can I say? I like a good story. And I think it is in the details that life becomes more scrumptious.
But sometimes, it’s just been a long day. And the creative energy (any energy actually) is just non-existent.
So concise will just have to do. So here it goes.
Summer flew by. Josiah had surgery in June. It went well and in hindsight, it was good “practice” for the one coming up.
July was filled with lots of “firsts” for our not-so-little-anymore little man – first plane ride, first time experiencing a Phoenix summer, first haircut, first time seeing the extended family, first time hanging out at the bowling alley, etc. Cue the pictures.
It was the best three week vacation any momma could ask for – a.k.a. sleeping in, not having to cook every meal, doting grandparents to watch the baby, actually getting dressed up for a night out. Pure bliss.
And now somehow, it’s already August. And the date that’s been looming on our calendar – August 16th – is already here. The date of Josiah’s next surgery.
This is “the big one” that I have been alluding to in previous posts. There are three main objectives for this surgery…
- Go in and separate Josiah’s colon/rectum from his urethra as they are currently fused alongside each other,
- Bring his colon/rectum down through the right muscles in his bum without damaging any other nerves, and
- Create his anus.
The procedure will take a minimum of four hours and we will be admitted into the hospital, so we are anticipating having to stay a few nights.
A couple weeks after this procedure, we will begin the next step in this process – anal dilation. Josiah’s body will think this new anus is an open wound and potentially try to close it back up. Thus, we will need to dilate morning and evening to stretch out his new anus and prepare it to be able to pass stool. Josiah will still have his colostomy bag during this time.
Depending on how the dilation process goes, we will do this for a couple of months before Josiah has his final surgery to reconnect everything so that he will pass stool through his anus.
A poopy diaper is probably not at the top of anyone’s list of dreams but for this famiLee, it will be a dream almost a year in the making.
And then the real journey of faith begins. But more on that later.
One thing I have learned over the last almost nine months since Josiah was born is to never be ashamed or afraid to ask for prayer. And to keep asking for it. And to keep believing with a crazy, ridiculous, incomprehensible faith that the impossible can happen when God’s people come together before the Almighty Creator.
So, will you pray with us?
Please pray for God’s healing hands to guide our surgeon and his team. For the surgery to be 100% successful. That there will be no damage to nerves, muscles, tissues, etc. For Josiah to wake up from anesthesia well and quickly resume his happy, healthy, giggly, hungry ways. That my husband and I will have grace for ourselves, for one another, and for everyone involved in this process.
But most of all, please pray that God’s glory would be revealed through our son’s little body. That somehow, a testimony would arise from the ashes of this season. That healing would triumph.
From our lips to His throne – “Jehovah has healed.”