For my friends who haven’t read part one and/or part two of the story of how we met and fell in love, click on the links to get caught up on the story. The rest of this post won’t make as much sense without the context, and for me, what’s coming up next in this post is the most important part of the story.
I was originally going to leave it with just part one and part two (got what I did there? Yup, go and read it if you haven’t 😉 ), because in essence, that’s where the narrative part of the story “ends” (I mean, our stories never end, but you get what I’m saying).
But it didn’t feel fair to end it there. Because see, there was a lot of heart messiness and thought processing that went on behind the warm, fluttery feeling within my stomach whenever I saw “cute guy.” There was a lot that happened in my walk with the Lord before “cute guy” even showed up on my radar. And if I thought I was “done” in this process of growing and wrestling with the hard stuff of my heart because my status had changed from “single” to “married,” boy was I wrong about that, too.
I want to share with you some of the honest, not so social media picture perfect parts of this journey and what I’ve learned from it. At the same time, I’m also acknowledging that by no means is everyone’s story the same. I remember watching my friends fall in love, reading other people’s love stories on their blogs, and flipping through article after article about “how to wait for the one” when I was single. But in a lot of ways, my story unfolded unlike anyone else’s that I could compare it to. So I say this to tell you that I don’t have all the answers. I don’t always know what I’m doing. But this is what I’ve learned and if anything, I pray that it will somehow encourage you and shed light on your own journey, wherever you may be. Read more…